Ahhh.. a lover of Volvos.... so you have good taste and are an individualist...
You'll fit right in as long as you don't expect the Ural to be as maintenance-free as your Volvo....
Out of interest (I work for Volvo) what Volvo do you drive :)
Just buy a Ural and the small things that you'll need to do will become like the small things you need to do for the woman in your world (except with a Ural you'll get more pleasure, less backchat and she'll always be waiting in the garage for you...)
Some of the crusty auld fellahs here try to scare away new guys... it's a sort of Darwinian exercise that actually works quite well. How you react will give you a good idea of how suited you are to these bikes...
If you buy a new one, don't try to mod it. Buy an old one for that.
But then, if you are REALLY into a challenge that will reward, look for a Dnepr....
Dublinski in sunny Sweden